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Funny story on frame control, Jamie Foxx was talking about Tom Cruise in Collateral and there’s a scene where Tom Cruise is like “Take the money. Go on, you know you want it. Take it, take the money.” and Jamie’s like “I know my line is to refuse the money, but he’s looking at you with that Tom Cruise intensity and he’s telling you take it, you want it, take the money, and suddenly I start thinking “…maybe I DO want the money?”" lol

“She laughs, and is like ‘yeah! I actually know a lot of hairdressers who wear it this way.””

Soliiiiid. Every hot girl knows hairdressers lol Your plane went through a shaky storm for a sec, but you held tight onto the controls and bam, broke through to the sunshine on the other side.

“Now….listen, this may sound stupid, but liiiiike….having a 9 legit show interest in what I said there just was….well….just about the best thing ever.”

Goddamn right. :) Even if she shoots you down, it’s a fucking 9 shooting you down, way better than being snubbed by some uggo 5. You can GET these girls. If you can act with a 9 the way you act with a 5, you’ll attract her just like the 5.

“Then, one of the other friends makes a motion — at first I thought she was making a blowjob motion, to insult me, but then I’m like ‘what’s going on over here?’”

lol good, taking charge, being the authority, owning the set, and including her friends VS snubbing them.

“and her friends inform me that this one — the 5.5-6 — is ACTUALLY a hairdresser.”

lol awesome. Such a perfect setup. On top of it, that tells you that 1) the other girls want to be included, these are a bunch of hot girls fighting over YOUR attention, the short guy who had to “tag along” with his friends a few weeks ago…and imagine how this all looks to everyone else in the room, you approaching and taking over this set like that. And 2) they’re now reacting to you instead of going “meh…” and seeing if you’ll leave.