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Are Feminists Finally Noticing That the Men Have Left the Building?
I do encourage women to say hello but not make any real indication of their interest. But the point is that it’s still the man’s job to pursue, no excuses. Because of my Christian orthodoxy, I believe that woman was created for man. Eve was created to be a “helper” to Adam. A wife is created to be a “helper” to her husband. A man who “finds” a wife finds a good thing and wins favor from God. And that is why I believe the man has to do the “finding.” Because in the end, it is for a man’s greatest benefit. If you look into all the studies of marriage, you will find that men benefit from marriage more than women do! You see, that goes hand in hand with what I’m trying to say. Men have to put in the hard work of pursuing the woman because they are the ones that benefit the most. Why should a woman also do the role of pursuing when she is the one needed to fulfill the man’s need for a companion? Adam was lonely even in paradise.
Okay, so if you don’t believe in the Christian orthodoxy or any of this stuff I’ve just said, my advice is really not for you. Just go back to my first point: You have to approach the woman not like she is perfect and you’re just dying to make her like you. Remember she has something to prove. All you are doing is creating an environment so that you are both able to find out if there is mutual attraction, both physical and internal. And this is another reason to pursue immediately and not wait. Because you have less time to make her this beautiful, perfect little angel in your head because you are hit with reality immediately. And when you do introduce yourself, if you realize that you’re not there just begging for her to like you, but you’re actually prequalifying her, making a discerning judgment call based on your interaction with her, then you will not feel so powerless, like she has all the power to make it move forward or not.
MidoriLei Says:
January 22nd, 2012 at 2:16 pm
Blue,
first off, what does, “ping” mean?
Blue Says: